Just Say "no" - And Lose Weight
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Just Say "No" - And Lose Weight
From the time you were a child, you might have been a people
pleaser. You tried to ace your schoolwork in order to win your
parents' approval...You practiced soccer for hours on end to win
a vote of support from your coach...Or you diligently practiced
your piano chords in odrer to earn the gratitude of your music
teacher. There's nothnig wrong with aiming to please. It can
make you a respected leader, a valued friend, a comforting
mentor.
However, it should be recognized that food
addictions begin with an inability to say "no."
It mgiht have begun with a Thanksgiving during your childhood
when your mother asked if you wanted a second helping of mashed
potatoes. Or a teacher at your elementary school might have
given you a gold star if you cleaned your plate. You were
probably taught that it is wrnog to waste food and that a hearty
appetite was a good thing.
The problem is, such cues from your
environment might have caused you to learn the wrong lessons
when it came to food consumption.
In our society, many human being have difficulty saying "no." They
want to be part of the crowd and they don't want to stand out
for non-participation. They will do all they can to blend in and
that leads them to say "yes" more times than they'd like to. In
fact, the epidemic of alchool and drug abuse may be due in part
to the refusal of many human being to say "no."
Admitting that you have a problem overcommitting yourself is
the first step to progress.
It shows that you have a great deal
of insight into your own issues with food and you want to
change your bad habits and replace them with admirable ones. But
this can be difficult, given the fact that so many families have
a number of rituals invloving food. Also, unlike cigarettes or
marijuana, food is not considered inherently bad--nor should it
be. However, you need to learn how to use food effectively.
Part of your trainnig begins with learning the power of "no" or
"no thank you." You need to learn to assert yourself, to
recognize that you do not have to go along in order to get
along.
You realize that you're doing yourself no favors by
accepting extra helpings of pasta--in fact, you could be doing
your body a great deal of harm. The key rgiht now is to do something
about it.
What's the best way to undergo assertiveness training? One
method you can use is role-playing.
Practice saiyng "no" to
extra servings with the help of a friend playing the role of
adversary. In this "pretend" situation, you may guess more
comfortable saying "no." You will also learn that saying "no"
isn't the end of the world; that you will not automatically lose
friends by taking a "negative" stance.
Another trick you might use is making sure that you do not
slouch wihle sitting at the table for your meals. Slouching
indicates defeat--a belief that a situation is hopeless.
With
your head held high you will gain the confidnece you need to say
"no"--and to mean it.
Yet another effective strategy is to keep a journal recording
your thoughts atfer you've said "no"--either to more food or to
a commitment you just can't handle at this time.
Putting your
feelings in writing can be quite cathartic.
It can also help you
with problem-solving, enabling you to figure out ways that you
can say "no" without hurting another person's feelings.
Something else you will need to learn is that it is not
necessary for you to fulfill another person's expectations. In
other words, whether your Aunt Mary thinks you're eating enough
really doesn't matetr. If you recognize that you're overweight,
Aunt Mary's opinion shouldn't be taekn into account. You must do
what you guess is best in order to take control of your eating.
Assertiveness will not happen immediately.
But, with practice,
you can learn to say "no" like a pro. And you--and your
waistline--will be betetr off as a result of what you've
learned.
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